It would seem the media in this country will go to any lengths to deny the aging of our culture. On October 18, the Huffington Post related “Tips for Staying Younger, Longer” to detail some “facts” about Zoomers – or Boomer narcissists in my view.
The article opened with the Warning: What you are about to read could very well extend your life by several years. According to the article Zoomers are “a growing segment of the baby boomer population who despite their advancing years are refusing to get old.”
In reality, the article is about a growing fitness and wellness movement among older adults age 60 and over, which included both the Greatest and Eisenhower generations. Generally speaking, older adults have always been open to new experiences; this characteristic was not created by any fringe group of boomers.
The author goes on to state that, “Zoomers … know true wisdom lies in the fact that learning is an elixir of youth. And who better to learn about being young, than from people who are young.” I offer a counter reality, “Old people know way more about being young than the young know about being old.” The explosive growth of Elderhostel and lifelong learning programs primarily populated by those age 70 and older blows a big hole in this theory.
Next is the claim that, “Zoomers have found a purpose that is greater than themselves.” So Mother Teresa, Einstein, et al were slackers? Well, developmental psychologists have long documented that we tend to become more altruistic in later life. Likewise, Maslow felt self-actualization was most often found in later life. The late Dr. Gene Cohen was definitely not a Zoomer, but he most definitely pioneered the later life creativity movement with youthful exuberance.
Not surprisingly, the author missed a major factor in longevity – a positive aging self image. While all the other Zoomer “facts” play a role (exercise, diet, socialization, seeking purpose, and brain fitness) to deny one’s aging in pursuit of fading youth is the stuff of Peter Pan. Rather than holding on to the myth that you “can refuse to grow old,” let’s just redefine what aging is really all about.
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